Throughout your life, you will encounter successful people who seem to effortlessly draw positivity into their lives. They are happy in their career, their relationships, and most importantly, they are happy with themselves. If you would like to be one of these people rather than being a spectator, take a look at the list of positive personality traits to cultivate below.
I can almost guarantee that you will never have happiness in your life unless you are an honest person with yourself and with others. Yes, you may be able to acquire everyone and everything that you desire through lying. Once it is discovered that you are a liar, however, your reputation becomes something that people will frown at and everyone around you know that you can’t be trusted. Trust is the foundation of every relationship and it is important that you practice honesty if you aim to improve your life.
Give the most importance to what you think of yourself rather than what others think of you. — Jacqueline Pearce, MSEd, LMHC
How you advertise yourself tells people volumes about you. People who dress sloppily, act terribly, and who are too shy to go after what they want out of life are often overlooked by others and are generally unsatisfied with everything. People who dress well, take care of themselves, act respectful towards themselves and others, and go after what they want in life, however, tend to be happy with themselves and with the world around them. If you want to be happy in life, try to model yourself after the latter individuals.
People who show gratitude have an easier time being happy with their lives and what they already have. Those who do not show gratitude are constantly trying to fill their lives with objects and people who they think will make them feel happy rather than realizing that everything that they need to be happy is already around them. Practicing gratitude is as easy as writing down 3 things each day that you are grateful for.
Many people think that logical mind is not as important when it comes to getting results in psychotherapy but that is simply not the case! — Laura Palisin LPCC
As Gandhi once said, “The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.” Helping yourself can not only help you find yourself but it can also help the people around you, no matter what you are doing for them. Try your best to be helpful to those in your life and you will immediately see the shift in yourself and in the way others regard you. However, you must also remember that you are only one person and that you need to time to recharge so that you can better help others.
More often than not, fear is what holds us back from reaching our full potential. The fear of not being good enough, the fear of rejection, the fear of failing – these are all things that we encounter on a daily basis. However, it is how we deal with these fears that define us. There are two choices: we could either choose to let the fears conquer us and prevent us from doing what we need to do in order to move forward or we could conquer our fears and become the person that we’ve always wanted to be. Courage is making the second choice no matter how scared we are of the outcome.
Self-power means we control our sense of peace, self-contentment, and focused ambition. In short, self-power can allow us to more effectively get what we want—and keep it once we have it. — Joshua Nash, LPC-S
These are only a few suggestions of what personality traits that you will need to cultivate in yourself in order to become the person that you want to be. There are hundreds of positive personality traits in people that you may wish to pursue. Sift through them all and incorporate activities into your day that will help you acquire those personality traits until you see yourself as the type of person you’ve always wanted to become.